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[holly_evolving]

1. Give me a nickname and explain why you picked it.
2. Am I lovable?
3. How long have you known me?
4. When and how did we first meet?
5. What was your first impression?
6. Do you still think that way about me now?
7. What do you think my weakness is?
8. Do you think I'll get married?
9. What makes me happy?
10. What makes me sad?
11. What reminds you of me?
12. If you could give me anything what would it be?
13. How well do you know me?
14. When's the last time you saw me?
15. Ever wanted to tell me something but couldn't?
16. Do you think I could kill someone?
17. Describe me in one word.
18. Do you think our friendship is getting stronger/weaker/or staying the same?
19. Do you feel that you could talk to me about anything and I would listen?
20. Are you going to put this on your livejournal and see what I say about you?

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[nicodemus-ace.livejournal.com]

1. Gravity. 'Nuff said.
2. Refer back to nickname. I would guess that even people who don't like you would have to admit (quietly to themselves) you're highly lovable.
3. My freshman year of college I knew of you... that's about 5 years. But I've only known you for the last three.
4. In W.E.B. DuBois class with Dr. Petersen... or was it History of Jazz first? Nah, it was the former. Though the first conversation I recall was at that OGL fair on TCNJ grounds when you had that dark red dress on. Apparently I'm more visual than auditory.
5. First impression was when I saw you with Ryan my freshman year... walking toward his room, head down, with black top and military fatigue pants and boots.. you seemed very shy, subdued, soft spoken, depressed... and likely a loner.
6. Whoa! Way off.
7. Not always a good judge of character.. though I'd like to think I stand up to your perception.
8. I do now.
9. You are of the few who can derive happiness knowing that those you care about are happy.. all other considerations (house on Ocean Grove, make that a castle etc) secondary. Admirable
10. Perhaps the loss of connection with people, not growing yourself, or time wasted on things you know better than to spend time on.
11. The Police, "Everything she does is magic".
12. Peace of mind... the security to know that you are taken care of, and your well being is guarded by those who are able.
13. Although it occasionally goes awhile betwixt catch-ups, we have always been transparent and it makes me feel I know you better than many people you see much more often.
14. That would be the first time I made it to your house, and ended up meeting Craig later that day, and then watching Hellboy with some random chatterboxes.
15. Nope! Got everything out in the open quite some time ago. I'm not much for holding back anything anymore, especially when it counts.
16. Mentally, yes, if you were so inclined. But you wouldn't kill anyone, you genuinely care about people and because you know the power of redemption.
17. Sincere. A compliment I do not bestow on many.
18. We have one of those friendships that does not weaken with the test of time... we could go long periods without any connection and pick up right where we left off whenever we do catch up. It's great, and in my experience, unusual... I call it strong. I do not feel I owe you my agreement, by I owe you my confidence and my loyalty.
19. As a matter of fact, I pretty much have. And I would again. You're a good listener.
20. Ah, I'll just put it on yours. Treat her like a queen folks, those of us who know enough do.

"Oh, the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person; have neither to weigh the thoughts nor measure words, but to pour them out, just as they are, chaff and grain together, knowing that a faithful hand will take and sift them, keep what is worth keeping, and then with a breath of kindness blow the rest away"

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