I wonder about that too- crushing the baby. And a lot of the moms and dads I know avoid bed-sharing for that same reason- fear they will roll-over and smother the child.
It may work better if there aren't 2 parents in the bed. I can't possibly imagine trying to put a newborn in between Eric and I, but me by myself *might* manage it better. Of course, I probably wouldn't really sleep, out of fear.
I do know there are the "side car" cribs for newborns and breast-feeding moms- the baby has it's own crib, but it's the same height as the regular bed, and pulls up alongside it. That could possibly work with "diaperless" babies.
We used to sell the sidecar cribs when I worked at Babies "R" Us. They're glorified bassinets; they're only safe to 20 pounds. Really doesn't work for the attachment parenting ideal.
Scenarios like this are really common. Walk around a Babies "R" Us or a toy store, and look at the size of the babies you see. If it seems a viable option, ask the parents what the baby's age and weight are. The answers will likely be surprising.
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Date: 2008-03-01 08:41 pm (UTC)It may work better if there aren't 2 parents in the bed. I can't possibly imagine trying to put a newborn in between Eric and I, but me by myself *might* manage it better. Of course, I probably wouldn't really sleep, out of fear.
I do know there are the "side car" cribs for newborns and breast-feeding moms- the baby has it's own crib, but it's the same height as the regular bed, and pulls up alongside it. That could possibly work with "diaperless" babies.
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Date: 2008-03-03 02:04 am (UTC)http://www.toysrus.com/product/index.jsp?productId=2401895
The non-mini is good up to 30 pounds.
http://www.babybungalow.com/arreaccospla.html
http://www.eirpharm.com/search_weight_height.php?age_months=12+Months&submit.x=41&submit.y=5
It would seem that 30 pounds is a fine parameter...but there are a lot of obese babies out there. Does breastfeeding always eliminate this issue?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070615214342AAkE17j
Scenarios like this are really common. Walk around a Babies "R" Us or a toy store, and look at the size of the babies you see. If it seems a viable option, ask the parents what the baby's age and weight are. The answers will likely be surprising.