shit

[holly_evolving]

craig dumped me. he said he doesn't love me anymore.










fuck










now what do i do?

Comments

[transversecity.livejournal.com]

Ah, f'k.

*hugs*

[laperleprofonde.livejournal.com]

aw I'm sorry darling.

I'm in breakup mode. MEN SUCK.


~HUG~

[r-u-b.livejournal.com]

yeah i'm actualy in recovering from my ex mode as well...

i'm sorry Lorreta.

What?

[jez69bel.livejournal.com]

Are you serious?
you guys were like soulmates when i met you over the summer!
Im really sorry
im sure this is just a fluke...
Meow~

[cosmic-hiccup.livejournal.com]

*hug*

You come and see the chaos fairy who will give you a real hug. Who knows what happens to these cyberhugs once you send em? I'll call you when the sun's a little higher.

[crazyman1108.livejournal.com]

whoa, whoa, whoa... just like that he ups and dumps you!?!?!?!

oh man,that is so rough... I'm sorry to hear that.

Call me if ya need to talk, but damn, that was just out of the blue

[bliklostsoul.livejournal.com]

I'm sorry ... it's his loss ...

Yes. I said that.

[ariestar.livejournal.com]

Cry for a bit and move on? Keep living?

It sucks, but it's not the end of the world, as I'm sure you know. It doesn't mean you're unlovable, it doesn't mean there's something wrong with you, it just means he doesn't want to be with you, which is something you can survive.

[polyemtgirl.livejournal.com]

Awe, I'm so sorry sweetie. I dont really know what else to tell you except *HUG*!! If you need to talk or a shoulder to lean/cry on, I'm here!

[liliane.livejournal.com]

Wait, what? :hugs:

[vampire-scion.livejournal.com]

Dear L,

Sorry to hear about your hardship.

The best one can do is take a moment to let that wave of numbness and shock wash over. After that passes, I find it therapeutic to let all the negativity out. Some people are font of screaming, others are fond of punching inanimate objects (like a sandbag) or running as fast as they can around a track. I find that composing or writing is helpful, as I channel that energy out of me though my work.

I find that when someone grows familiar, the absence of that familiar person is what troubles one most. In the now, many fear being abandoned, and many fear being alone. Many forget that they are capable of forgetting, healing, and growth beyond the wounds inflicted upon us by others.

Once one has vented, one gathers one's self up to step back and assess the situation objectively. Is one cohabitating with the other person? Does one share any possessions with the other person? Does one risk seeing the other person amongst their circle of friends?

Also, one must determine if such a breakup is amicable, neutral, or hostile.

I think it is better that you are in a healthily relationship with a good symbiosis rather than one that succumbs to entropy. Even worse would be a situation in where people are too afraid to part even when they know things are dysfunctional and stay stuck in perpetual unhappiness simply because the presence of another person is comfortable, or one decides to settle.

You are an exemplary person. You are strong and spirited. I know you put your all in everything you do, and I admire that greatly. You only deserve the best life has to offer. Sadly, bad things happen to good people, and to no fault of their own. It's unfortunate that a person like you, who loves so intensely and so purely, who posses a fantastic joi de vivre, who experiences so passionately, can suffer such an injustice.

If you need someone to talk to about your problems at present, or would like a distraction from your daily thoughts, do not hesitate to call me, e-mail me, or contact me through my LiveJournal.

Take care, and be as well as you can be.

Your Friend,
J

[thegreyeminence.livejournal.com]

Grieve as long as you need to. Recover as soon as you can. You'll make it.

[felixknight13.livejournal.com]

wow I'm sorry sweetie ::hugs::

[jenn-girl.livejournal.com]

hugs.